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I’ve said it before. sayin it again..

..girls in flannels and bean boots..




I’ve saved this since March to post.

Heteronormativity isn’t just about the presumption that everyone is heterosexual. The expectation that boys woo girls feeds into your mind the expectation that relationships are necessary for fulfilment, and you are less than if you are not having particular kinds of sex with a particular, and a particular kind of, person at particular intervals. It’s about what Lauren Berlant calls the love plot, in which love is produced as a generic text enabling society to interpret your life as following certain conventions. It’s not about what you want, it’s about what you’re supposed to want. You’re not encouraged to think about what you want in relationships, if anything, so much as you are encouraged to fit a script. Heteronormativity messes things up for everyone, straight people included.

Tossing the script of desire | Zero at the Bone (via brute-reason)

Have I already reblogged this? Don’t know don’t care.

(via queercore)

this is everything

(via bustysaintclair)

Conversations with the family are always fun… my mother thinks lesbians are only ugly girls whilst my sister thinks they are ones who have been raped… also bisexuality does not exist.



Why is this not taught universally.




We’re not people really.  Our concerns are not America’s concerns.  We are just here for entertainment. We’re a convenient treasure trove of limitless creativity to be pillaged, watered down, and re-purposed for White audiences and the people getting rich from bastardized stereotypes and simplified caricatures of everything we bring to the table have nothing to say when shit gets really real.


Shit got real. 


Hugo Weaving being Hugo Weaving.

Boyfriend got me a lovely present for working my butt off this month. If 7 day weeks always come with perfume they are a little more bearable. #perfume #daisydream #marcjacobs #love #pretty #blue #daisy


If you’ve cut a negative person from your life, whether they were abusive or just someone who wasn’t a positive influence on you, at NO POINT in your healing are you required to let that person BACK into your life.

Your healing should never be contingent on you bringing people who have harmed you back into your space. Your healing does not require you to give these people a second chance to harm you.

you don’t have to forgive them either, it’s a step towards letting them back in, but more importantly it’s ok to be angry with someone who hurt you and it’s not unhealthy. If someone did something to upset you or make you mad you don’t have to rise above it or forgive and forget. I’m not saying hold onto it with a burning passions which eats away at you. But you most certainly don’t owe anyone your forgiveness and you also don’t owe them the opportunity to make it up to you.

dante + being a little shit


“you can tell a lot about someone by the type of music they listen to. hit shuffle on your ipod, phone, itunes, media player, etc. and write down the first 10 songs. then pass this on to 10 people. one rule: no skipping”

 so i got tagged by inpictura-estpuella

1. Wake Me Up - Avicii
2. Let it Go - Idina Menzel
3. Unstoppable - The Calling
4. Earthquake - Labrinth
5. Watercolour - Pendulum
6. When We Stand Together - Nickelback
7. All About Us - t.A.T.u
8. Raise Your Glass - P!nk
9. Guilt - Nero
10. Cadence of Her Last Breath - Nightwish

I used my Spotify because my iTunes is in a state :/

Tagging: die-katzen-konigin andimstupid lionhearted-lamb tender-vittles realizethestrength chinfish hobbitin no-one-spectacular


FALSE. Fathers who ask for sole custody are far more likely to get it. It’s just that they don’t ask, mostly women do. Men win custody over women even if they are ostensibly unfit. More and more, judges and parents rule in favor of 50/50 custody. In fact, in the past ten years, the men’s rights movement has been devastating to women seeking custody in court and women are awarded sole custody about half as many times as men.  

Let’s play “Never Have I Ever”. Cross out all of the things that you have done. You might just see that there are people just like you out there.


  • Never have I ever kissed a girl.
  • Never have I ever kissed a boy.
  • Never have I ever received/given a blowjob, hand job, eating out.
  • Never have I ever had sex.
  • Never have I ever fallen in love.
  • Never have I ever cheated on someone.
  • Never have I ever been cheated on. 


  • Never have I ever gotten into a fight.
  • Never have I ever done something illegal. 
  • Never have I ever gotten wasted.
  • Never have I ever used an illegal drug.
  • Never have I ever snuck out.
  • Never have I ever stolen something. 
  • Never have I ever vandalized something.
  • Never have I ever lost a family member due to death.
  • Never have I ever been in a life or death situation.
  • Never have I ever been arrested.
  • Never have I ever been fired from a job.


  • Never have I ever been kept up at night due to guilt. 
  • Never have I ever laughed so hard I cried.
  • Never have I ever been abused physically.
  • Never have I ever cried myself to sleep.
  • Never have I ever wished that I was someone else.
  • Never have I ever wanted to kill myself.
  • Never have I ever tried to kill myself.
  • Never have I ever felt like an outcast.
  • Never have I ever wanted to do something just so I would fit in.


  • Never have I ever ruined my friendship with someone.
  • Never have I ever had a friend leave me for other people.
  • Never have I ever been kicked out of a friend group.
  • Never have I ever wanted to fuck one of my friends. 
  • Never have I ever been friendless.


  • Never have I ever failed a test.
  • Never have I ever cut class.
  • Never have I ever had to eat alone.
  • Never have I ever failed a course.
  • Never have I ever been suspended.
  • Never have I ever received detention.
  • Never have I ever dropped out of school.

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